WHAT’S THE DEAL WITH IFS?

WHAT’S THE DEAL WITH IFS?

Every so often, a particular type of mental health therapy takes center stage and gains serious traction in the counseling community. IFS, or Internal Family Systems (not to be confused with the Family Systems approach) is one of them. While it’s more involved than some modalities, it can provide serious insight and healing into our system of beliefs, feelings, and behaviors.

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Emotional Safety: What It Is and How to Develop It

Emotional Safety: What It Is and How to Develop It

When you hear the term “emotional safety”, what comes to mind? Emotional safety is not a term that is used in our everyday language but I bet every person knows exactly what it is. Think about the different relationships in your life. Take your best friend for example, why do you call them your best friend? My guess is that it’s not because of how they look, or what kind of job they have.

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Beating Imposter Syndrome With One Quick Tip

Beating Imposter Syndrome With One Quick Tip

We’ve all been there…. 

In a meeting, feeling like we don’t belong

In a class wondering if we’re the only one who doesn’t get the concept being taught

Sitting across from a prospective client trying to make the sale but doubting every word coming out of your mouth

What do all these scenarios have in common? It’s Imposter Syndrome rearing it’s ugly self doubting head!

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5 Things You're Afraid To Say To Your Therapist (but we want you to!)

5 Things You're Afraid To Say To Your Therapist (but we want you to!)

Many people in therapy have thoughts and questions that they’re unsure of but worry aren’t “appropriate” to talk about or might be awkward.  Sometimes those thoughts and questions are actually very helpful to the therapeutic process and your therapist would welcome them.  Here are 5 things you may be afraid to say to your therapist but they wish you would: 

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The Importance Of Black Mental Health

The Importance Of Black Mental Health

Once again, one of my favorite months of the year is upon us - Black History Month! I take pride being a Black man and I love learning about the rich history of Black inventors, doctors, activists, and leaders that have come before me. Reflecting on those who have paved the way for me to be the professional that I am today always brings me joy. This time of year also causes me to reflect on the struggles myself and my fellow Black and/or African Americans have experienced in the past, as well as the current and daily stressors we must navigate.

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